What You Need to Know About

Anxiety During Pregnancy and Postpartum

It’s like your brain is running a nonstop worst-case-scenario reel: What if I eat the wrong thing and hurt the pregnancy? What if I fall asleep and don’t wake up when the baby cries? Even when things are fine, you feel tense, restless, and unable to relax. Sleep? Forget it—your body is buzzing even when the baby is down.

What Is Perinatal Anxiety?

Perinatal anxiety is constant, overwhelming worry during pregnancy or after birth. This isn’t just “new mom nerves.” It’s a level of anxiety that hijacks your thoughts and body, making it hard to rest, focus, or enjoy life with your baby.

During Pregnancy

Anxiety can start before your baby even arrives. It might look like:

  • Checking every bite of food or Googling ingredients late at night.

  • Worrying endlessly about ultrasounds, test results, or labor.

  • Feeling your heart race whenever the baby doesn’t kick right away.

  • Lying awake at night rehearsing every possible complication.

  • Tensing your body constantly, as if bracing for bad news.

After Birth

Once the baby is here, anxiety often shifts—but it doesn’t let up. It can show up as:

  • Repeatedly checking if your baby is breathing while they sleep.

  • Feeling like you can’t leave your baby with anyone else, even for a shower.

  • Racing thoughts about every possible accident, no matter how unlikely.

  • Panic attacks that come out of nowhere—sweating, heart pounding, shortness of breath.

  • Trouble sitting still or relaxing because your mind is scanning for danger.

Symptoms of Perinatal Anxiety

Perinatal anxiety can include both mental and physical symptoms that last at least two weeks and interfere with your life. Common signs are:

  • Persistent, excessive worry that feels uncontrollable.

  • Restlessness or feeling “on edge.”

  • Trouble sleeping, even when exhausted.

  • Racing thoughts or inability to “shut your brain off.”

  • Physical symptoms: rapid heartbeat, shortness of breath, sweating, or nausea.

  • Irritability, muscle tension, or feeling keyed up all the time.

  • Panic attacks (sudden surges of fear with physical symptoms).

Anxiety doesn’t mean you’re “just a worrier.” It means your nervous system is in overdrive.

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Anxiety doesn’t mean you’re “just a worrier.” It means your nervous system is in overdrive. 〰️

But is it Normal?

Every mom worries—it’s part of loving and protecting your baby. But there’s a difference between everyday concern and clinical anxiety that takes over your life. Perinatal anxiety is thought to affect 20–25% of moms. Here’s what to look for:

Worry

Worries come and go, usually tied to a specific situation

You can reassure yourself or move on once the situation is resolved.

Worry doesn’t stop you from eating, sleeping, or enjoying time with your baby

Your body feels calm once the stressor passes

Fades on its own

Anxiety

Worry is constant, excessive, and not tied to one situation—it feels nonstop.

Reassurance doesn’t work

Anxiety interferes with sleep, bonding, focus, and self-care

Body stays tense and “on edge” most of the time

Persists for 2 weeks or more

Treatment works — and you can find treatment that fits your life.

Get support right this minute

The National Maternal Mental Health Hotline is a free resource for anyone who needs support with their mental health during and after pregnancy.

Call or text 1-833-TLC-MAMA anytime day or not and you’ll be connected with a trained counselor who is certified in perinatal mental health.