What You Need to Know About
Anxiety During Pregnancy and Postpartum
It’s like your brain is running a nonstop worst-case-scenario reel: What if I eat the wrong thing and hurt the pregnancy? What if I fall asleep and don’t wake up when the baby cries? Even when things are fine, you feel tense, restless, and unable to relax. Sleep? Forget it—your body is buzzing even when the baby is down.
What Is Perinatal Anxiety?
Perinatal anxiety is constant, overwhelming worry during pregnancy or after birth. This isn’t just “new mom nerves.” It’s a level of anxiety that hijacks your thoughts and body, making it hard to rest, focus, or enjoy life with your baby.
During Pregnancy
Anxiety can start before your baby even arrives. It might look like:
Checking every bite of food or Googling ingredients late at night.
Worrying endlessly about ultrasounds, test results, or labor.
Feeling your heart race whenever the baby doesn’t kick right away.
Lying awake at night rehearsing every possible complication.
Tensing your body constantly, as if bracing for bad news.
After Birth
Once the baby is here, anxiety often shifts—but it doesn’t let up. It can show up as:
Repeatedly checking if your baby is breathing while they sleep.
Feeling like you can’t leave your baby with anyone else, even for a shower.
Racing thoughts about every possible accident, no matter how unlikely.
Panic attacks that come out of nowhere—sweating, heart pounding, shortness of breath.
Trouble sitting still or relaxing because your mind is scanning for danger.
Symptoms of Perinatal Anxiety
Perinatal anxiety can include both mental and physical symptoms that last at least two weeks and interfere with your life. Common signs are:
Persistent, excessive worry that feels uncontrollable.
Restlessness or feeling “on edge.”
Trouble sleeping, even when exhausted.
Racing thoughts or inability to “shut your brain off.”
Physical symptoms: rapid heartbeat, shortness of breath, sweating, or nausea.
Irritability, muscle tension, or feeling keyed up all the time.
Panic attacks (sudden surges of fear with physical symptoms).
Anxiety doesn’t mean you’re “just a worrier.” It means your nervous system is in overdrive.
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Anxiety doesn’t mean you’re “just a worrier.” It means your nervous system is in overdrive. 〰️
But is it Normal?
Every mom worries—it’s part of loving and protecting your baby. But there’s a difference between everyday concern and clinical anxiety that takes over your life. Perinatal anxiety is thought to affect 20–25% of moms. Here’s what to look for:
Worry
Worries come and go, usually tied to a specific situation
You can reassure yourself or move on once the situation is resolved.
Worry doesn’t stop you from eating, sleeping, or enjoying time with your baby
Your body feels calm once the stressor passes
Fades on its own
Anxiety
Worry is constant, excessive, and not tied to one situation—it feels nonstop.
Reassurance doesn’t work
Anxiety interferes with sleep, bonding, focus, and self-care
Body stays tense and “on edge” most of the time
Persists for 2 weeks or more
Treatment works — and you can find treatment that fits your life.
Get support right this minute
The National Maternal Mental Health Hotline is a free resource for anyone who needs support with their mental health during and after pregnancy.
Call or text 1-833-TLC-MAMA anytime day or not and you’ll be connected with a trained counselor who is certified in perinatal mental health.